Let’s be real: talking to a coach can feel weird at first.
If you’ve ever had thoughts like:
- “Do I really need this?”
- “What if I say the wrong thing?”
- “What if they think I’m a mess?”
You’re not alone.
Whether you’re finishing school, starting a job, or just trying to figure out your next step, opening up to someone new — especially about your goals, fears, or uncertainties — can feel awkward.
I’ve worked with so many young adults who’ve said the same thing:
“The first session felt a little strange…”
…and also:
“I’m so glad I stuck with it.”
Why It Feels Awkward
You might not be used to someone giving you space to talk just about you — without judgment, without trying to fix, just listening, asking helpful questions, and gently guiding.
That kind of space can feel unfamiliar, especially if you’re used to:
- Keeping things inside
- Going it alone
- Not wanting to “burden” anyone
But that awkwardness? It’s not a bad thing. It’s a sign you’re doing something brave.
But Here’s the Truth
Coaching isn’t about having it all figured out.
It’s about having a safe space to explore what’s next — with support.
That uncomfortable feeling? It means you’re stepping into something new.
And while new can feel awkward, it’s also where growth happens.
What to Expect Instead
Over time, most of my clients say coaching becomes something they look forward to.
It becomes a space where they can:
- Unpack what’s been on their mind
- Gain clarity and direction
- Leave feeling lighter and more in control
We laugh, we reflect, we plan.
There’s no pressure to perform — just permission to be real.
If You’re Feeling Nervous, That’s Okay
You’re not too much.
You’re not too behind.
You’re not the only one feeling unsure.
You’re just human, and you’re right on time.
💬 Want to Try It Out?
If you’re curious about coaching but feel unsure where to start, I offer a free 15-minute call.
No pressure. No commitment. Just a chat.
👉 Or grab my free resource: Foundations: A Starter Kit for Adulthood — a practical guide to help you start figuring things out.
You don’t have to have it all together to take the first step.
Just show up as you are.


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